Under VAWA, you have the right for your gender identity to be respected—that means being treated as the gender you say you are. You should not be asked to prove your gender with medical or legal documents or and you should not be asked about your body parts.
You have the right to ask for an individual accommodation to provide greater privacy or safety if you desire to (such as by being housed in a separate area)—but a program cannot isolate or separate you just because you’re transgender.